Safety
Staying Safe on Gamer Singles Dating
Your real name and address stay private, ID checks are free, and real people are watching out for you around the clock.
- Free to join
- 18+ only
How you are protected
Every protection below is part of the platform the site runs on.
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ID Verification (Blue Tick)
Optional government ID verification with visible badge.
Why it matters Confirms users are genuine and reduces catfishing risk.
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Video Verification
Live video check with moderators to confirm identity without documents.
Why it matters Provides authenticity without sharing sensitive ID.
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Age Assurance
AI age estimation with additional checks where required.
Why it matters Prevents underage access and protects vulnerable users.
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Safe Usernames
Your real name and email are never shown publicly.
Why it matters Prevents stalking, unwanted contact, and being traced on social media.
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Location Privacy
Shows only your nearest town or city, never your exact address or live location.
Why it matters Keeps your home and real-world location private.
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Instant Blocking
Block any user immediately so they can no longer contact or see you.
Why it matters Puts you fully in control of who can interact with you.
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Easy Reporting Tools
Report users or content quickly from within the platform.
Why it matters Allows rapid action against abuse or inappropriate behaviour.
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User Rating System
Every user has a reputation score based on behaviour and feedback.
Why it matters Helps you quickly judge who is trustworthy before engaging.
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One-Click Feedback
Instantly upvote or downvote interactions with a single click.
Why it matters Encourages respectful behaviour and flags bad experiences early.
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Off-Platform Contact Alerts
Detects attempts to move conversations to external apps like WhatsApp.
Why it matters Warns you about common scam tactics.
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Behaviour Monitoring (AI)
Automatically detects unusual or suspicious activity patterns.
Why it matters Identifies scammers, bots, or harmful users early.
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Proactive Content Moderation
All images, videos, and text are screened on upload using AI and human review.
Why it matters Stops harmful or inappropriate content before it reaches users.
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Swift Takedown Policy
Rapid response to requests to remove unauthorised or harmful content.
Why it matters Minimises exposure and protects your privacy and rights.
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Explicit Image Protection
Potentially sensitive images are blurred with a warning before viewing.
Why it matters Prevents unwanted exposure to explicit content.
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24/7 Human Support
Real support team available via chat, phone, and messaging.
Why it matters Ensures fast help when you need it most.
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Safe Dating Guidance
Helpful tips and reminders built into the platform.
Why it matters Supports safer decisions both online and when meeting in person.
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Secure Infrastructure
Hosted on PCI-compliant cloud infrastructure with full SSL encryption (e.g. Microsoft Azure).
Why it matters Keeps your personal data, messages, and payments safe.
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Industry Safety Standards
Aligned with best practices through our involvement with the Online Dating and Discovery Association.
Why it matters Ensures we follow and help shape global safety standards.
Before you meet someone from the site
Most dates between gamers start with weeks of messages or a few sessions playing together online, which is a good way to get to know someone. Meeting in person is still a step up, so a few habits are worth keeping.
- Keep the chat on the site until you are comfortable. If someone pushes to move to WhatsApp or another app straight away, the site will warn you, and it is worth asking why they are in a hurry.
- Ask for a video call before meeting. A two-minute call settles whether the person matches their photos.
- Meet somewhere public and busy: a games café, a bar with board games, a convention hall. Not your home and not theirs.
- Tell a friend where you are going and who with, and get yourself there and back.
- Never send money, gift cards or game credit to someone you have not met, whatever the story.
- If something feels wrong, leave, then block and report the profile. Our support team reads every report.
Playing together online first
Gaming gives you a good halfway step: play a few rounds together before you meet. Use the in-game or platform party chat rather than handing over your phone number, keep your gamertag separate from your real name if you can, and remember that a voice in a headset is still a stranger until you have met them.
Safety questions
Can other members see my real name?
No. Members see your username. Your real name and email are never shown, and your location shows only your nearest town or city.
Is everyone on the site verified?
Not everyone. ID verification is free and optional, so look for the verified badge on a profile. Photos, videos and text are screened by software and by people as they are uploaded.
How do I report someone?
Use the report option on their profile or in your messages. You can also block them, which stops them contacting or seeing you straight away.
What do you do about scammers?
Activity is monitored for the patterns scammers and bots leave, attempts to move chat to outside apps are flagged, and reported profiles are reviewed by people.
Questions or concerns?
Our support team is here 24/7. You can reach them from your account at any time.
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