Gaymer dating
LGBTQ+ and Gay Gamer Dating
Gaymers welcome: say who you are and who you are looking for, and meet people who share your games.
- Free to join
- 18+ only
Yes, Gamer Singles Dating is for LGBTQ+ gamers too. When you join you say who you are and who you are looking for, and the daily matches follow it, so gay, lesbian, bi, trans and non-binary gamers can meet people who share both their identity and their games. Gaymer, the word many gay gamers use for themselves, is welcome here.
How matching works for you
The matching starts with gender identity and who you want to meet, then weighs age, how far away someone is, what sort of relationship you are after, lifestyle habits and shared interests. Only people who fit what you chose come up as suggestions, and you can browse and search as well. VIP adds advanced search filters.
Gaming first
Profiles are built around what you play: the genres, platforms and games that matter to you. That makes for easier first messages than on a general app, because there is always something real to talk about, whether it is a fighting game main or a farming sim you have sunk a year into.
Privacy and safety
Members see your username, never your real name or email, and only your nearest town. You decide what to share and when. Blocking is instant, reporting is a tap, and a human support team is there 24 hours a day. The house rules every member agrees to include being kind and respecting a no, and they apply to everyone. More on the safety page and in our house rules.
Where members are
We have members in the UK, the USA, Canada and Australia. Our locations pages show the cities and the kind of places gamers in each one meet up.
A straight answer about size
We are a gamer dating site rather than an LGBTQ+ dating site, so the pool of people matching your preferences near you may be smaller than on a large general app. The free account shows you who is there before you pay anything, which is the honest way to find out.
Gay gamer dating questions
Is Gamer Singles Dating LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes. You choose your identity and who you are looking for, and the house rules on kindness and respect apply to everyone.
What is a gaymer?
Gaymer is a word many gay and LGBTQ+ gamers use for themselves. It started in online communities and is now widely used.
Can women look for women?
Yes. Set who you are looking for when you join and your matches follow it.